Being rich is not a sin

As a frugalist, I naturally know many people who share the same values. Some practice the art by choice, and others by necessity. Some love being frugal, while others wished life were different. In every category though, there seems to be a select few who would resent the rich. The other day, I heard this comment:

…Who cares. Those people have rich parents and that’s why they can afford it. Me? I make my own living.

Don’t worry if you’ve felt something similar. I have done this too, as I find myself envy of my friends who are well off at times. It rarely happens, but sometimes I wonder why I have to struggle dealing with my wife’s constant request to purchase our first house when others I know just buy because they have a huge inheritance waiting for them.

As a result of this enviousness jealousy, I may have sent out unintended hostile signals to those friends (I’m just speculating here so please leave a comment if you felt the hostility at certain times). You may be understanding and think that it’s a natural reaction, but here’s the thing – being rich is not a sin. In fact, having rich parents is not a sin. If these people have the means, they should enjoy it. It’s one thing to live large without money, but why do they have to put up with others if their ancestors successfully amassed wealth?

This is for all you people who envy someone you know:

If you are jealous of your friend who received a huge chunk of inheritance, then work hard and save diligently so you can leave your children with the same luxury.

If you are jealous of your coworker who got the promotion you wanted, work doubly hard so there’s a better chance that luck would be on your side in the future.

If you are jealous of others who seem to live a high life, invest in yourself so you are capable of earning a better living when opportunity comes knocking.

The list goes on, but there are solutions to every situation. Be creative and always have a positive attitude.

There are no guarantees that these remedies will work, but if we can increase our chances, what more can we ask for?