Some years ago, a woman told me how her friends took her shopping for Asoebi.
They said it was “the latest”.
By the time she was done, fabric, shoes, bag, the bill was $3,500, not counting jewellery or sewing.
She laughed when she told me the story, but it was a painful laugh.
That day, she made two decisions:
Never again.
And never those friends again.
Another woman confessed that she and her circle bought jewellery worth over $50,000 when their husbands became CEOs. It felt like a rite of passage until one of those husban
